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Do Not Underestimate

When we feel that someone is not match with us or we don’t feel convenient with him, we tend to make him change the way we want. But man is not a cocoon. We cannot change him to be a beautiful butterfly. When there is no changing, we say that this marriage is not working. We are too different and do not match to each other. Where actually all the differences between husband and wife can be solved well and easily by acceptance.
Have you accepted your spouse and your marriage in all aspects?

Check yourself. Do not ignore dangerous signs that need to be considered:

• Do you feel difficult to praise or to give compliment to your spouse this moment?
• Do you often compare your spouse to another person?
• Are there things you want to change in your spouse?
• Sometimes you think that your marriage is not going well.

If there is just one thing from above that you start to do, take time to fix it. It is not wise that you let small sand get in your baby’s milk, that thing may cause dangerous trouble. The same thing might happen in your marriage, do not underestimate small thing that might be done by most people. Because your are not that most people. You are precious and so is your family!